56. Overcome Trauma & Addiction to Create a Successful Life & Business
Have you ever felt like something was missing in your life, despite having everything you thought you wanted?
In this episode of the Money Mindset Hub podcast, coach and entrepreneur Milly Jones shares her inspiring journey of overcoming trauma and addiction to create a life aligned with her truth.
Milly's story is a testament to the power of manifestation, intuition, and self-belief.
She emphasizes the importance of trusting oneself and taking action towards one's dreams, even in the face of failure and self-doubt.
Milly's journey is a powerful reminder that we all have the power to create the life we truly desire. Despite facing numerous challenges, including addiction, trauma, and self-doubt, Millie never gave up on her dreams.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure of your path, this episode is a must-listen.
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Speaker 1 (00:00:00) - Welcome back to another episode of the Money Mindset Hub podcast. Today I have a beautiful guest who had the pleasure of meeting 11 years ago, which we will dive into 11 years ago, traveling Europe, partying away on Contiki. That was just a magical time. It was a magical time. But it's safe to say over the last 11 years it has been one hell of a journey to where we are now. So I want you all to meet Millie Jones, the woman who transformed from an abused addict to the world's number one coach. Millie's inspiring story of overcoming sexual abuse, addiction to drugs, alcohol, gambling and food, as well as a suicide attempt, is a testament to her resilience and unwavering determination. Her journey has inspired countless individuals to take control of their lives and create a better future for themselves. So back in 2018, Millie met Lucy, her life and business partner in crime. They embarked on a journey of self-discovery that took him around the world. They explored thousands of different tools and processes, earned 32 certifications just casually and worked with ancient masters in Bali, Egypt, Peru.
Speaker 1 (00:01:13) - And since they've integrated the science and the spirituality to create a powerful coaching methodology that has helped now over 4000 people globally. Holy hell, Millie, that's amazing. And Lucy It's amazing. So this is then led them to creating a wildly successful coaching company, and Millie was recognized as the number one coach in the health and wellness industry worldwide. Now the pair of them are on a mission to certify and train women in a new way to become coaches and help them create six and seven figure businesses using the tools and processes they've learned on their journey. So join me in welcoming the amazing Millie Jones. Oh, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (00:01:53) - That was a mouthful. It was, but holy hell. Oh, the old one. Three in human design Researcher. Investigator. It's my thing. Three, 5013. Yeah, the three The Experimenter. So, yeah, so much color and you're so beautiful. And it's an honor to be on here with such a beautiful, amazing person. I think you're incredible and you also inspire me.
Speaker 2 (00:02:20) - So thank you for having me on your amazing show.
Speaker 1 (00:02:23) - Oh, I can't wait to dive into this podcast episode. Seriously, Like, I don't even know where we start. Like, where do we start? Millie, Take us back, Actually, yeah, maybe to like, give them a little bit of a background. So yeah, like I said, we met 11 years ago traveling Europe, partying away. Yeah, we were. Oh my God, I was 21. I just turned 21 when we got over there and it was amazing. And I remember meeting you and you were the life of the party. You were the you're just such a beautiful person. And from meeting you, then, like, instantly connected with you.
Speaker 2 (00:02:54) - Yes. Thank you so much. And do you know what I found with you? I instantly connected with you, and I felt so grounded and guided. And always, when I was in your presence, felt this loyalty and this strength and just this beautiful energy that you're always, like, leading the pack.
Speaker 2 (00:03:09) - You knew where to go. Like, I felt, like very safe around you. You had that confidence in you. I was like, You're beautiful and you're always right of light. And it was amazing to be around you. So I guess 11 years ago, God, how old were we then? How old are you this year?
Speaker 1 (00:03:23) - So I'm 32 at the end of the month. So it really.
Speaker 2 (00:03:27) - Yeah. Yeah. So.
Speaker 1 (00:03:29) - So we were both 21.
Speaker 2 (00:03:30) - Yeah. Yeah. We're both 21 Living the living our life dream, packing up our suitcases and traveling the world. And guess for me like a little bit about my background and journey is I, I was a cancer baby born on the 20th of July, popped out the womb and was really born into a family that didn't feel like really accepted me and got me. And I always felt really different. Like growing up in my environment. I remember just being really tapped into the field and just, you know, not really knowing how to regulate my emotions.
Speaker 2 (00:04:05) - And it led me to really shut down as a child because I really didn't feel like I could be my true self. My family's amazing, but just the background there is just completely different to how I live my life now and where I want to go. And as I got deeper color, I got abused. I got sexually abused from a young age, and that really, really shut down my personality. It shut down the on all core levels by a man and a woman. So it was also very confusing for me growing up knowing my sexuality. I didn't tell anyone for many years. It was a part of the path that led me down to feel that pain. And I continued on school. But there was like this part of me that was completely shut down and it really always just felt like not good enough. I was just like, I'm just not good enough. I'm not pretty enough. I got severe eating disorders by the age of 12. Body dysmorphia and a. Believe me. And believe that this stemmed from the trauma of being sexually abused.
Speaker 2 (00:05:04) - And then it just kind of took off. I started hanging around with the wrong people. It's kind of like a charmeleon like was always like just trying to fit in wherever I could because I always had that joyous, beautiful energy, but really just wanted to be loved or seen by anyone. But it led me down a dark path. And then by the age of 14, I was using some heavy drugs, alcohol. I was an alcoholic. I battled that. So guess you saw me in my heyday when it was probably still all fun and games. But leading up to that, to be honest, it wasn't. I was drinking at my worst a bottle of vodka, bottle of wine and amphetamines every day, Valium. And that was kind of my normal life and it was all closeted. Everyone thought I was just like outgoing, happy person. But like, internally I was like, dying. I guess that led me to a waking point in 2016 where I just couldn't do it anymore, was like, I just can't do this life anymore.
Speaker 2 (00:05:59) - I can't express my sexuality. I don't know who I am anymore. I don't feel like I have a purpose. And I basically made a decision to end my own life and I crushed up all the pills. I remember I had this Anthony Keating book. It was like that white book from the Red Hot Chili Peppers and had all the rest of my drugs in there. And I took everything I could. And I said to the universe, I said, If there is a God, if there's a universe, if there's some spirit out here, show me if I've got a purpose. Otherwise take my life. It's not for me. And the craziest thing happen the next day that led me on this journey, I woke up and it was like another part of my spirit had come online. It was like a walking part of my soul and I was just like, I've got a purpose. And I knew what it was. If I can change my life, I can help anybody change. I've been through so much, I've been at the depth and I was like, okay, I know what to do now.
Speaker 2 (00:06:55) - I'm going to devote the rest of my life to finding every tool on the planet, discovering it all, healing myself, being an experimenter, myself. I could get through that, like being dyslexic, being ADHD. There's so many more stems of the trauma of like not feeling good enough, all the things that I struggle with. But if I could overcome these deep, dark things, anyone could do it. Like if Milli Jones could do it like that girl who everyone thought she'd amount to nothing and alcohol was a cleaner at times. You know, I had all these humble beginnings. If she could do it, anyone could. And then that day, I just like. I don't know how I didn't nothing happened to me because I took a lot of drugs and alcohol, but I felt fine. It was the craziest experience I've had to this day. And even when I walked out into the lounge room, my mom said, What happened to you? And I was like, I don't know. And then that's when I started my evolutionary path to go and start to find some of those tools.
Speaker 1 (00:07:54) - Oh, my God, You know, you made me cry just then. By the way, you might not have noticed that I could feel the tears. The tears were rolling up. But I'm like. Don't don't cry because everyone's going to hear you cry while she's trying to tell a story.
Speaker 2 (00:08:07) - Yeah, that that's all in my eyes.
Speaker 1 (00:08:10) - I'm like, thinking it away. Wow. That is one hell of a journey. Like you just had me so captivated then. But because you're right in what you said. Like when people. When I met you, you were. You were just this bubbly, beautiful person that was here for fun. But and and I mean, not even in like. Yes, we're obviously on to Kentucky and we were, we were drinking and stuff, But but you were always just such a vibrant energy. You were just so beautiful to be around and had this beautiful positivity about you. And I would never have known and mean we did have like we had certain conversations back then.
Speaker 1 (00:08:47) - But you know, it was probably in amongst, you know, the day in the middle of the night or something. But but then I would never have pictured. You have income from that level of trauma because of the person you were right. And it's usually in the most unexpected people. You're kind of like, I suppose in a way, you would have felt like you were wearing a bit of a mask.
Speaker 2 (00:09:10) - I totally was. I was wearing a mask. You nailed it on the head trying to fit in. You know, no one ever knew that I was, like, dying inside. I kind of felt like an imposter all the time. Like, felt like I wasn't smart enough. I felt like I didn't know enough. I always felt like I was just trying to fit in the best I could. And because I had this radiant, bubbly energy, I hid behind my truth, my boundaries, what was really honest for me. And for many years I just tried to be whoever everyone wanted me to be and led to a lot of pain and the darkness.
Speaker 2 (00:09:41) - But no one ever knew. Everyone's like, Really? Really. Whoa. God thought you were so happy. But yet they didn't see the hours that I sat there, you know, every night having drugs and alcohol, sitting in a dark room. I was just able to flip that switch because it is in my personality. It's been a journey back home to, you know, owning who I am, being real with myself and being vulnerable and being okay with showing up for who I really am.
Speaker 1 (00:10:04) - Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:10:05) - Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:10:06) - So when along your journey you met you met Lucy in 2018. So how long have you been on that journey before you had met Lucy?
Speaker 2 (00:10:13) - Yes, that's a great question. So I remember sitting there at the time, as it would have been 2017 leading into 2018, and I'd gotten a bit better. I was running a health company and it was successful. I was getting the accolades I was seeing as someone. I had 50 clients. Everything was happening for me and I was in that energy.
Speaker 2 (00:10:34) - And then I felt this feeling again. I was like, This isn't it? This is not align, this is not my truth. And I was with my partner at the time. We were building house and land packages like everything was killing. It got brand new, car, had the money, success, everything was great. And yet I got this feeling this is not it. And I was like, I'm going to have to give it all away. So I left the company, left my partner. I had no money, gave everything back. And I sat in this little outhouse that someone had rented me for $100. I literally was sitting there. I had no money. I had no idea what would happen. And I was like, Universe, give me a sign. And then straight away I hear this voice like it just come over me. Like my intuition. My higher self was like, Amelia, go to Egypt for one month, Bali for two. I got full body goosebumps.
Speaker 2 (00:11:24) - I was like, I have no idea how this is going to happen, but I've got to do this because when I get the goosebumps in those feelings, it's like a deep knowing that I got to follow my path. I got to follow my soul. And so I set the intention, Well, I'm going to need some money. I had no job at the time and you wouldn't believe it. The next Tuesday, $14,000 dropped into my bank from something I'd forgotten about 18 months ago to do with that. And I was just like.
Speaker 1 (00:11:51) - Oh my God.
Speaker 2 (00:11:53) - And like, my money was in the blacklist. I used to really like being an addict and being a gambler. I was like 50,000 in debt with gambling, drugs, all these different streams. I didn't respect money at that point in my journey. I kind of abused it. I had this really toxic relationship with money because I was given money and I wasn't emotionally. So I had this so much work to do there. But in that moment I was like, I got the book, The Magic.
Speaker 2 (00:12:18) - Have you ever read The Magic? Oh, it's a great money manifestation book. It's cool, but it's got these daily tasks. And I was like, You know what? I'm going to try and manifest. I've never manifested before, but I'm going to sit here. I'm going to manifest a trip to Egypt with no money naming blank. I've got no idea how I'm going to do it, no job. And I sat there and started to read this book, matching my vibration, giving my gratitude, connecting into the field, doing my mindset like mindset is number one for sure. And I was doing all these processes and then I'm like, Let's see if I could go to the bank. Let's see if they'll loan me money. Surely not. I'm in a blacklisted thing. Like I don't want, this is possible. And I went there vibing. I was dying Day 11 on the magic. Like I'm in the vibe. I'm like going in there. And I thought if I could just manifest $10,000, I could go on this trip.
Speaker 2 (00:13:08) - And went in there and they offered me 16 and I couldn't believe it. I was just like, How is this happening? And I was like, Manifestation is real. Like this quantum field, this stuff. I was reading about the unconscious mind and I was like, Hey, there's more to this life. And in that moment I was like, okay, okay, cool. So I've got the money. What else can I what, what else do I need? And then this lady called me out of the blue and asked me to go to this retreat with her two day retreat and thought, What have I got to lose? I go there and then she hooks me up and says, Were you wanting to go to Egypt? This crazy synchronicity? And she said, There's 1 to 2 spots left on this trip in Egypt. And it was like and I was like, Oh my God, I saw it. I got goosebumps and I signed up. And I said, we've got no seats, but they fit me in.
Speaker 2 (00:13:59) - It's in two months time. They fit me in. All these manifestations started happening. I even walked up in the street and I'm like, How? How else am I going to do this? Like, I'm going to need some more money. And this guy waved at me. His name was Omarosa from, you know, the supermarket. He's like, Do you want to come work for me for a couple of months? I'm like, perfect, but I'm going to be going on this trip to Egypt. So all of these crazy things, there's so many other synchronicities that happened that led me to going on that trip my parents gave me, man, it was just like my I needed when you need to go, when something is meant for you, it will always happen for you and you're in it for the long right? It's going to happen for you. And you can trust that because it was my path. And so I go on this trip, I leave everything. I had followed the goose bumps and went to Egypt in 2018, in the October, and I rock up there.
Speaker 2 (00:14:53) - I had no idea what I'd signed up for. And then and then I realized I was with 50 other spiritual masters that were 50 to 60 years old, that were the spiritual dharma that were there to do a thing for the planet. Now, I hadn't meditated for more than ten minutes or done any manifestation, so I was in for a treat. It was ten, eight, 10 to 12 hours of meditation, activations, quantum things to learn new teachings for humanity. And I was out of my depth. I got sick, I got I was like, why am I here? It was like everything cracked open again. It was like everything shifted for me in that moment. I had this big awakening. And so anyways, I go on this journey and Egypt finished. I fly to Bali and I landed in Bali and I'm thinking, I just don't know what the hell just happened. I was in Egypt doing 8 to 10 hours. I spent more time in the quantum rooms, meditating, learning sacred teachings for humanity.
Speaker 2 (00:15:54) - Doing it was the seven initiations of enlightenment with these big teachers. I had no idea what I was doing, to be honest. And anyway, that's just that's my addictive personality. I'm all or nothing. I've got that in me. Like I'm only the inner, I'm out. And I remember sitting there thinking, Oh my God, Like, I just don't know what happened. And then, like, my bulimia started happening. I was like, I, I was just like, I can't deal with this. What is reality? I kind of like went to the pyramids. I had all these, like, awakenings and I just, like, had all these past life remembers all these things happen to me. And I'm like, I just don't know what life is anymore. And then I realized, like, so I started eating the Pringles, and then I got this same message. Car was like, What should I do? Universe God guides anyone out there. Like the quantum field was just like really learning what all this meant.
Speaker 2 (00:16:44) - And it was like download Tinder and was like, What? He's saying this to me, you know, like my higher self was okay. And I was like, Don't want to. And then the next day I was watching Netflix really depressed, eating Pringles because I was vegan at the time and Pringles are vegan. Anyways, I'm sitting on the floor crying like eating these Pringles and thinking this isn't living. And then I get the message again. Millie download Tinder. And I was like, Oh, okay. So I download Tinder. I put a picture of myself on a camera saying, Hi, I'm Amelia, I'm on a spiritual pilgrimage, and I put it up and then I got embarrassed and I felt shame. I deleted it. And then I put it up again because I got this like, you have to put it up. And then sure enough, I look and I swipe right and it's her. I just instantly knew that is my queen. That's my beloved, this beautiful being. I just knew she's my union partner.
Speaker 2 (00:17:43) - I just it was like time stopped. It was like, boom, there she is. We swipe right. And from that day on. When this is history. The rest is history.
Speaker 1 (00:17:54) - Oh, my God. Really? You gave me goosebumps so many times just then as you were talking. That is amazing. Yeah. The journey.
Speaker 2 (00:18:04) - It's been a journey.
Speaker 1 (00:18:05) - I mean, even just your experience in Egypt as it is, I mean, diving into that realm. But first of all, just want to take it back a quick step.
Speaker 2 (00:18:13) - Yeah, go for it.
Speaker 1 (00:18:15) - I love that you you touched on that piece. First of all, manifestation is real. That's right. 100%. It is there. All of that. It's a whole nother realm. It really is. It's like this complete other paradigm. Like life is not just what you see. Okay. Yes. Felt And the more that you dive into this and just get curious, like you've probably always been the same as me of thinking there must be something else, like there is something else out there now, whatever you want to call it, whether you want to call it God, Higher Power universe source, whatever I always say universe or higher power.
Speaker 1 (00:18:51) - Like I've always believed in higher power and like, don't tell grandpa. I grew up Catholic, just like there just has to be more to life than what I can see because it sounds like you're very much the same and you're very intuitive. Yeah, you get these downloads and you're like, Oh, what the hell? Why do you keep coming back? And I remember this awakening moment and it was like this voice just got louder and louder and kept being like, Just go away. I'm not here. Who am I to do that kind of thing? Who am I to start a business and talk about money for God? Yeah, I was like, No, no, no, no, no. That's back off. But it just got louder and louder and louder until I did it. Like you. It's like that voice isn't going away because that is the higher power body talking to you. That is your intuition, speaking to you and saying, No, you will, buddy, listen to me or I'm just going to get louder until you cannot avoid me anymore and you do something.
Speaker 2 (00:19:49) - It's so good. I love that point collar and love that you followed that voice because it is like when you choose to believe it, it's like it gets louder and louder. You can't ignore it. I love that.
Speaker 1 (00:20:00) - Because then it's just like this. Just do it now. All right. What are you going to do? What are you going to do with your life? Right? And it was kind of on the flip side of that. It was this feeling of like, oh, this voice just keeps getting louder. And then it was this this fear of looking back on my life and having regret.
Speaker 2 (00:20:16) - Yes.
Speaker 1 (00:20:17) - And that's my driving force. It was like, well, if I don't have a red hot crack at it, yeah, then I am going to have regrets one day because I didn't bring to life the vision I have in my head that this voice keeps reminding me of. And unless you try right, and you build that person, you become that person that you desire to be.
Speaker 1 (00:20:36) - Yeah. That that unshakable self confidence and self belief and healing your traumas and healing your past and your relationship. And obviously I'm very big on the relationship with money because it's so much deeper than money.
Speaker 2 (00:20:48) - Oh, it's so much deeper.
Speaker 1 (00:20:51) - But it becomes addictive.
Speaker 2 (00:20:53) - Yeah, I agree. Said beautifully. Everything you're saying, I believe, and I think it's such a great message for everyone watching is so beautiful like that, trusting yourself that if something's been planted in your heart and your soul, it is yours. It is yours to bring forth. And no one else can give you that magic wand. You have to take control and bring it forth.
Speaker 1 (00:21:17) - You do. Because if you don't, you're going to have bloody regret. And we're not here to do that. Right?
Speaker 2 (00:21:23) - It's it's so true. And it gets louder and it moves you. Right. Like the have to do it because when you were saying that I thought about the time that I hadn't met loose and this is the weirdest thing that happened like with the energy like you know, when you've got to trust it what we're talking about, like you keep getting the downloads, you trust it.
Speaker 2 (00:21:41) - We opened up Tinder. Lucy said, What's your birthday? I said, The 20th of July. She said, Mine too. I was like, What? And then I said, What's your life purpose? And I told her. And she's like, mine too. No way. And then she said to me, because Lucy's very straight to the point, she's a leader. She just she's very analytical. I'm probably more the feminine in that energy. And she's like, Well, what do you wish to see and contribute into the world? And we wrote down the same thing in order ten things in the same order, and it freaked both out. We were freaking out, we were getting goosebumps, we were freaking out. She thought this could be a murder mystery show. She was like, Have you hacked into my you know, are you trying to kidnap me? I was like, I'm not really like that.
Speaker 1 (00:22:24) - Are you really? Really. Are you really, really Are you?
Speaker 2 (00:22:28) - You've just come back from Egypt.
Speaker 2 (00:22:29) - But when I was sitting there color like this was this is when I got this feeling like this is a crazy synchronicity. At the exact same time I left, my partner Lucy left her partner who was also a builder. We both with men, we both leave our partner in the exact same month she travels to Bali. I get the download to travel to. She's in Bali. I fly to Bali. But the craziest thing that brought us together and this is like we had the exact same journey. This is what freaks us. It's just like these synchronicities that you can't you can't make up. You've got to share because it's just like magic exists. This quantum world is powerful. And I was in Egypt right at the ISIS temple in Aswan, and this man came up to me and said, You have to take this crystal. And I kind of didn't trust him. To be honest, I was kind of like, I'm not really sure. I was very scared. I was in a lot of fear programming because I'd set myself up on this crazy ass enlightenment journey that I had no idea wasn't prepped for.
Speaker 2 (00:23:30) - And he said, This is a part of your path. So I take the crystal and I put it in my pocket, and when I get to Bali, I got this message Give the crystal to Lucy. And I'm like, What the hell? I kept ignoring. I was like, No, this is weird. I was like, She's going to think I'm crazy and I've got this message again. Give the crystal to Lucy. And was like, No, this is the only thing I've got from Egypt or not. Then I was in a message and I got this loud message, Yeah, give this crystal to Lucy. And I was like, You know what? I had that much energy running out of my body that I completely got up out of the massage, said, Thank you. Here's the money. I packed up my bags. I went to where I thought she would be, and I waited for her to be online because she was in Thailand at the time. And I waited for her like a stalker in Chengdu, waiting for the online button to be on Facebook.
Speaker 2 (00:24:20) - And as soon as I saw it, I said hi. I never know if you're going to speak to me again, but I got this crazy download to give you this crystal. Will you come and meet me? And she's like, The weirdest things have been happening to me. I'm coming to pick you up now. And she picked me up as soon as we met. Time stopped in space. We just remembered all these different past lives. It was just like, Boom, we are here and now. And yeah, we've been together ever since and it just gets crazier. The synchronicities. But when the energies come together, it's powerful.
Speaker 1 (00:24:52) - Oh my God, this story needs to be a book.
Speaker 2 (00:24:56) - Yeah. We don't have to write a book.
Speaker 1 (00:24:58) - You're going to have to write a book like that. Is. That is amazing. You found your person. You both found your person. Yep. And this is. That's a magical, crazy story. I don't think I've ever heard another crazy story like that of meeting your person the way that you met, the way that you went through all of the same things.
Speaker 1 (00:25:17) - It's crazy. But you trusted it. And now look at you. Now.
Speaker 2 (00:25:20) - And now. Look at us now. And the last bit is to end it. The love story that keeps going. The last synchronicity. The night that we met, I went into meditation. Lucy was on a whiteboard and we come out an hour later and we downloaded the exact same thing of what we would do for humanity. She drew it because she's very intelligent in that way, and I meditated it and got all the visions and downloads and with the exact same mission. And we're doing it. We're still doing this later. We're on the same mission, trying to help humanity unlock their potential. But we both got that. And then, yeah, the rest is just evolving. So that's.
Speaker 1 (00:25:59) - Oh, that's amazing. Yes. So happy for you. I'm so happy for you. And you just. You seem like, truly happy. Yeah. And like, you have had a lot of demons to work through.
Speaker 1 (00:26:12) - You had a lot of trauma to work through, but it's like you've come out the other side. And what the most beautiful thing is, is that you're showing other people that that's also possible that have had that level of trauma. And and even the health concerns that you had, you know, like going through those different. Yeah, there's different issues that you had and coming out the other side and then knowing that it gets to be beautiful though, what have you focus on is what you're going to see. And we know this, it is everything starts and ends with your mindset. You can have the most beautiful life, but you could be absolutely miserable inside. So you're going to have a shit experience. And the person next to you that is only looking at the gold, the silver linings, they have the most beautiful experience. It's always your perception.
Speaker 2 (00:26:53) - It's so true. I love it. It's so true. You've nailed it on the head. Mindset is everything.
Speaker 1 (00:26:59) - Everything.
Speaker 2 (00:27:00) - It's everything. It's the goal.
Speaker 2 (00:27:02) - It's everything. I still believe it is the number one thing that I align to every single day.
Speaker 1 (00:27:07) - Yeah, every day. Your your mindset and your energy. There are partnership, right? There are partnership. They're in.
Speaker 2 (00:27:14) - Union.
Speaker 1 (00:27:15) - Yeah. They're your dude. Yeah, they are. So then get me to this point. Right. So before you had a health company. Yep. And. That you decided to leave? Yep. I mean, that's a whole nother story in itself. Yeah, but talk to me about where you are now. Tell me about your company, your vision, your mission. Give me. Give me that. Give me that rundown. Give the listeners the rundown. I've educated myself, but give me a rundown.
Speaker 2 (00:27:42) - Yeah, yeah, sure. So I guess, like, through. Through everything, I started off in the physical world, I'd like to say. And that's really like working in the body, getting myself fit, healthy, you know, putting the right things into my body.
Speaker 2 (00:27:57) - And I was like, Well, this isn't it either. I kind of let go of everything else and just focused on that. Then it opened up the mind and in the mind I was like, Whoa, this wall limiting beliefs. Like it got me crazy. So in the health I studied psychology of eating, I studied health, I've become a personal trainer, nutrition, all these different things. But then when I found the mind, I was like, Whoa, there's more here. I was like, I just went donkey deep in everything I could find, like becoming NLP, like hypnosis time, like whatever I could get my hands on, right? Just because I was just like, this is amazing, you know? And that led me to so many different qualifications, so many different things. But I kind of felt when there was a mindset and I had the health, I was like, Something's missing. And that's when I went to find my soul. This other part of me, this spirit, this soul.
Speaker 2 (00:28:50) - And that led me to like studying, channeling like tarot cards, Like I got into energy, quantum physics. I went deep into enlightenment studies. I studied with the ancient philosophers for five years as a student, and I still am to learn the science of the soul. And I was like just immersing myself. And what I found is when I put the three pillars together, like having a unbreakable, limitless mindset, having a body that is regulated trauma, you know, where you're working through a trauma, the health, vibing, energy and the soul, and you unlock your true self and your soul map. Something happens. It's like this amazing triumph effect. Your soul comes online like your whole energy, your whole field is working in like a symbiotic frequency to the universe. It's like your transmitter is like, boom, boom. It's like and everything just starts aligning. So that's kind of like how that transitioned, how I started doing it. So I just started studying everything I could, training with ancient masters, Masters training the best with the Western as well.
Speaker 2 (00:29:52) - I was like, I need to bridge this science of spirituality. I'm very much still in both worlds. Like it's very important to have both. So I just started going deep into every different type of modality, every different type of aspect, starting with some of the best in the world around the world. And yeah, now our company, we've had over 4000 people through this rapid transformation system. That's actually what we won the award for because it helps people unlock their highest potential and live their dream life. And it works on every single person because it's designed for every single person to unleash their true life. You know, everyone has their own unique soul, their own unique soul, divine blueprint. And when you can untap that, it's kind of like just this beautiful thing. So we've been working with women across the world, and then because I found it, I tested the tools for the last 5 to 7 years. I got obsessed with it. I was like, You know what? I want to train other coaches.
Speaker 2 (00:30:49) - I want to train other people, mums, leaders, entrepreneurs. Like I wouldn't even use the word coach like anyone who wants to like, grow their life and live their life on their terms. And so then I went and got qualified so that I could train people in NLP, hypnosis, timeline therapy, NLP coaching. I've studied all the ancient philosophies and put them into different types of education systems. And because of my Queen Lucy. Yes, I'm so lucky I'm not the business brain behind our business. Yes, I can help you with blocks, limits, all those things. But I've had an incredible partner who's a system iser, who's had 12 years in the industry and business marketing. She's got a business degree. So she was really able to, like, bring together this vision of helping us change the education system, helping us unlock human potential and awaken human potential. And we started off with females because we very much, we two women together, we attract a lot of women. But actually what's been coming to us is a lot of men as well.
Speaker 2 (00:31:49) - So we are starting to open up what we do with men as well, but just trusting what comes. So yeah, our mission is really to awaken the planet, awaken each soul to their highest level of potential and help shift everyone on the planet. Because I truly know in my soul that every single person can break free and live the life of their dreams. If I could do it, they could do it. You did it color. We all know like it's possible if you just align and you just go for it and you give it your heart and you're willing to fail a million times over and just be okay with that because we haven't touched on the failures, all the things.
Speaker 1 (00:32:25) - Failing forward, always looking as like you're failing forward, right? Yeah. The only time you ever truly file is if you quit.
Speaker 2 (00:32:34) - It's so true. Yeah, baby. And think that's the important part that I am very much a student of life. I'm still learning every single day. I fail 20 times a week.
Speaker 2 (00:32:44) - I am so not perfect. Just FYI, saying I'm very much merely mess in a working program.
Speaker 1 (00:32:52) - We don't all have our shit together all the time. There's always initiations to the next level. It's. It's like, Oh, true, isn't it really? Like it's like every level, you devil.
Speaker 2 (00:33:01) - That's what.
Speaker 1 (00:33:02) - Exactly I literally So just before I just wrapped up a call with my Matrix members and I was talking about becoming untreatable and how every and like how to become untraceable because every challenge that we get and I always call it like it's a universal test. Yeah, it's a universal test. Every time the universe challenges me to get to the next level, like, do I really want what I think I want? Like what I say I want? And then the universe is going to be like, Here's all these test color. Let's see if you can get to the next level. If this is really what you desire to have, then this is a challenge. Here's a trigger. He is an opportunity for you to grow and evolve.
Speaker 1 (00:33:48) - And I really feel like it's a never ending journey to to get to the point of becoming untreatable is is just as journey right. It's it's always this evolution. New level new devil. Absolutely new challenge new initiation to get you closer to your higher self to that that woman that is full confidence full self belief has all the success and that you desire. But to get there there will be challenges and initiations along the way. So I think that's a beautiful point. Let's talk about some of the filing forward and let's talk about some of the challenges because because this is the dark side of entrepreneurship, right? Yeah. This is the side that not a lot of people want to talk about. And a lot of the time I think there is this false narrative around people becoming an overnight success or will they've just had it easy. So and this is where limiting beliefs come up for people as well. This this triggers. Right. But they can do it. I can't do it. Yes, you can. If someone shows you it's possible.
Speaker 1 (00:34:51) - It's possible for you to. However. We've got to remember not to undercut everything they have done to become that version of them. And that comes with a lot of challenges initiations, leveling up, breakdowns, things that just total shit shows sometimes in the back end. Yeah. Yeah. So tell me, like, what are what are some of the lessons that come to mind? I suppose.
Speaker 2 (00:35:15) - Totally. Saga comes to mind. I think I wrote a post the other day about, Oh yeah, I'm the number one coach on the planet, but here's what you didn't see. And it was like 100 sales calls failed. I lost seven friends along the journey because people didn't resonate with me anymore. Family members, seven public speeches that I bombs that were just terrible. That was very much still learning, you know, just courses. It didn't work out. People who said they'd pay me and they didn't Getting rejected over and over again, people not seeing my worth. Look, there were so many.
Speaker 2 (00:35:48) - I nearly went bankrupt twice at the very beginning. Also within my soul, within myself, the limiting beliefs that like manifesting my reality because I'm projecting them out unconsciously. Where did that come from? I really feel that one of the biggest lessons and learnings from an entrepreneur is just being okay to see it as feedback and just being okay to push forward and like because I've got the three in my chart like you color, I'm all about experimenting anyway, so I kind of feel like I if I be vulnerable and I just share the truth about things that and think you may resonate on that. I know we like each other's post when we hear that's actually the truth about what what goes on in these journeys that, you know, it really allows others to probably not hide in the dark. Like we don't have to have it all together. I'm a coach, but I still have shit come up. You know, I do the very best I can, but sometimes it fall short, you know, Sometimes I want to be better and I'm not.
Speaker 2 (00:36:46) - And I think that when you look at yourself as a beautiful piece of art, that's like always being sculptured and moved and like, danced with that, you know, it becomes easier to show up because I very much had that perfectionism. I have to have it perfect. Got a lot of that in my chart, like I have to have it perfect. So it actually stopped me with impostor syndrome for years than actually like speaking in front of people having the confidence to even run a program. I'm like, Who will listen to me? Even the first this is actually this is a great one. This is probably the best one to share the first event I ever run. When I didn't have a home, I was almost bankrupt. I'd been following my heart. Yes, I'd been to Egypt, I'd met Lucy, I'd come back and we were in triggered states all the time because we just met each other. All of our crap was coming up. It was. It was not pretty. And like, we were triggering each other's core stuff 24 over seven.
Speaker 2 (00:37:45) - We had no money in the bank and this kept going. And then we just it wouldn't manifest like everything we put out, it didn't work. Like it looked like we were doing great. But we really went and we just kept trying and trying. And it been about seven months and I got a letter from the tax and I was like, getting done for this tax bill. I had no money. I was able to I was living out of this back end church that someone had lent me. Like it was it was like the true entrepreneur's story of trying to make it. And I remember thinking to myself in that moment when I got that letter with money because like, I really had this money, abusive relationship, like money betrayed me, so I'll betray it. I'll just give it out. I'll just spend it like it'll come to me. I'll abuse money because I was abused and there was these links to my deep trauma of being abused. And in that moment, I realized I had a really big choice and I felt like Lucy was going to leave me.
Speaker 2 (00:38:42) - I was about to lose the love of my life because I wouldn't step up. I had all this fear. I had all these greatness in me that I couldn't unleash. I just couldn't. I was too shy. I had shame. I was embarrassed, thought people are going to laugh at me. And I remember putting out a post for my first workshop ever, like only five years ago. And it was I was just calling in ten women and I was like so nervous. And I put out the thing and I meditated and connected into their energy. Lucy does all the marketing. I'm very much about how I feel and like felt into serving them. So ten tickets just like that. And I was like, Oh, I don't know if I could do it. And the day before I started to prep in this church where I was living, I run it in the church. I just used what I had, the skills that I had with use. This is a lesson. Use what you got with where you're at, being who you are.
Speaker 2 (00:39:36) - I put it all together and because I don't see sequential order, I'm very much a big picture person. And remember, handwriting, all of it out. It all had spelling mistakes. I was like, I don't know which bit goes where. And I'm thinking, Oh, these people have paid me. I think it was $47 to come to a whole day workshop with me. You know, And I was just like crying. And at the same time, I was being the sales person for Lucy's business program. And I failed five times on that day, like every person said no to buying from me. And I was just like projecting this big reality of I'm not good enough. And it was reflecting everywhere. No one wanted it. My spelling got shut down five times, and then I ended up getting all this energy and I said, I can't do it. And I slipped over and I knocked myself out. I had a panic attack. I slipped over the ground. And Lucy's like, What just happened? Because I just panicked and just knocked myself out.
Speaker 2 (00:40:34) - And this is how intense it was, the motions of feelings. I was like, I just can't do it. I just cannot show up for these women. I can't. And then when I sat there with myself in a triggered state for two hours after I come back and I was like, you know what? It's not going to be perfect. Fuck it. I'm just going to put it forward. You know what? It's probably going to be what it's going to be. I can do it. And I still had self-doubt. And I think this is for any person who's trying to launch or trying to put something out. I still get self-doubt when I'm trying to uplevel the next part of me like this is like the every level has a new devil and think. As an entrepreneur, my biggest lesson has been even when I feel the doubt and the fear in myself, I just do it anyway. And that was that lesson. Just do it. And I was like, Fuck it, I'm just going to do it.
Speaker 2 (00:41:27) - And I put it together. I asked for Lucy's helping God. She was there because of my She's like, What is he spell? What does that mean? And I'm and then I decided to actually start open the day, telling the exact story about what happened. I'm Millie. Sometimes you're going to see new words up. There can be a little bit dyslexic. And I bought my true, authentic self to the table. And it was so received by the audience and everyone thought it was beautiful. I said I had a panic attack just over there. This is how I feel. But here's what I've prepared for you. And I just shared my soul heart on my sleeve and it was received. And out of the ten, nine people came on that program, ever sold my program. And it was just the best experience. It was life changing. It come up many other times throughout my journey and still does. But think the biggest lesson I have is like when you feel the fear and you feel the self-doubt and you got blocks coming up, sometimes you need to still just do it because you haven't expanded into it yet.
Speaker 2 (00:42:26) - Body hasn't cellular tapped into that next layer of who you are capacity wise. So that's what I'd say is my biggest lesson.
Speaker 1 (00:42:34) - Lean into your edges where it feels scary, but you know it's the right thing to do. This is speaking to me. I'm scared shitless, but I'm just going to have to feel the fear and do it anyway. That's you coming to an edge. You've got to get comfortable with being uncomfortable and reaching your edges because that is evolution is you growing, right? It's become addicted to finding your edges and doing that scary shit because that's how you evolve. And then you know what? You're funny because as you expand what used to terrify you, you look back and be like, That's sweet, isn't it funny? But you were like literally having a panic attack at doing that. And now I guarantee that you wouldn't even bat an eyelid. Like. Yeah, come to my retreat. Yeah. Cool. Yeah, right.
Speaker 2 (00:43:19) - Yeah, yeah, yeah. Now feel confident in my worth.
Speaker 2 (00:43:22) - And, like, you get used to selling and feeling that vibration of, like, your offer. And I get it. It's so deep. You've banged it on. Get addicted to your edges. Love that. And just lean into it. Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (00:43:33) - And the thing there with with a lot of it comes back to like confidence, right? It's the confidence piece within you. Yeah. But to put it bluntly, yeah. Confidence only comes after you take unconfident action.
Speaker 2 (00:43:49) - Boom, baby, that's. That is so that is the truth of confidence. Like quote. Carla that is so true. It's the.
Speaker 1 (00:43:58) - Truth. And you know what I think that's like obviously, like you said, where line three is like the great life experiment is. So we have to get over the fact that we're not doing it perfect. We're not perfect. I'm kind of I'm a recovering perfectionist and people pleaser, too, right? Me too. Yeah. So it's like actually, it's kind of liberating getting to that point and being like, you know what good is good enough? And you know what might fuck it up.
Speaker 1 (00:44:26) - And it might not be everything that I wanted it to be, but I'm going to do the best I possibly can, and then I'm going to reflect. I'm going to learn and I'm just going to iterate and get better. Exactly. Keep getting better and keep getting more and more confident because that's just that's just the way, right? That's the way to fulfillment.
Speaker 2 (00:44:44) - I love it. It's gorgeous. What you said is just music to my ears. That's it. You just sometimes you suck and you just get better. Like there's only feedback. Your failures give you what you should change, your lessons, your learnings. And I think when you let go of that and just see this feedback and see it, this growth, it's kind of kind of exciting. When you're trying something new, you're like, Will it work? You become a little bit more funner with yourself. And I think that takes, you know, a little bit of obviously taking that unconfident action. But then eventually you're like, if it doesn't work, it doesn't mean I'm not good enough or this isn't me.
Speaker 2 (00:45:17) - This is just whatever I'm putting out, you know.
Speaker 1 (00:45:19) - Or it's a tweak like, Oh, okay, that didn't quite land or that launch didn't quite go as well as planned. Yeah. So what can I tweak next time? Was it my marketing? Was it my messaging? Was it like, was my energy really behind it to actually love this offer enough to speak about it? Right, Because that's a big part of it. That's the part of it that.
Speaker 2 (00:45:38) - Is so true. That is the biggest that is probably another big thing that I've learned in my lesson. What you're saying is, do you believe in it enough to even market yourself with it? Do you think it's going to change someone's life? You know, I know when I've got more truth with like what I really care about. Oh, it was just so much easier and like, what I really believed in first, like, oh, that doesn't feel like I've embodied that or like, that feels good for me, you know?
Speaker 1 (00:46:02) - And that's where that imposter can come up, right? It's like, Oh, have I fully mastered this yet? Or I'm not saying that you have to be the master of everything.
Speaker 1 (00:46:09) - Like you literally just need to be a few steps ahead of the person you're taking through this transformation, right? Yep. But, but yeah, there's just that. Yeah. There's a lot of things that come up along the way and I find you probably find this too, right? The more fun you are having, the more light hearted that business feels and creation and you're just in the energy of it, right? You're lit up and your heart is on fire and you're just like, Go, go, go. This is amazing. The more fun you have, the more money you make. Totally is the way that it works in entrepreneurship.
Speaker 2 (00:46:41) - Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 1 (00:46:43) - That's it. Not chase the money. If you are doing something for money, it's going to feel hard and you're probably going to miss the mark and you'll be like, Why are the clients coming? Wine making money? Because when you're looking for the money and you're not actually doing it with good and pure intentions just to be of service, then it's going to actually repel rather than attract.
Speaker 1 (00:47:03) - Right? That is like, Yeah, right. You're not a magnet. There's two sides to a magnet. What attracts one repels and you're just like, I'm just going to put this out because people will probably buy it. Yep. Then you're repelling. Yeah, I agree. Have fun. Love your business. Love what it is that you're creating in the world. Do it with the most purest intentions to serve and give so much value. Then the money will come. The money's a byproduct of living a life in alignment. That is like the way I see it. And that is. That's. That's money mindset. Thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (00:47:35) - Thank you very much. And boom, that is true. Do what you love. Love what you do. Share from your heart. Have fun. Money will come. It's true. It's true. Whenever I'm out of alignment, I know I'm not loving what I'm doing. I'm feeling out of alignment. I have to go check myself. Check where I'm at, check what I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (00:47:52) - I'm a generate a sacral. I have to feel passionate or and that makes me a hard business partner for my partner because she doesn't have any of that. She's a one liter four system miser. She is all about the analytics.
Speaker 1 (00:48:06) - That's why it's such a beautiful duo though.
Speaker 2 (00:48:09) - Thank God I bring the passion. She makes it all happen. But like without that, like I as a business partner, I've had to learn like also how to finish through with my commitment to myself. That's been a big part as well. But you definitely have to love what you do or it won't work.
Speaker 1 (00:48:24) - No, it won't. Or you'll give up. You won't. You won't be able to. It's a long game, right? It's for the long game.
Speaker 2 (00:48:32) - It's the longest game, but it's the life path. Like when you love what you do. It's just like I'm on this mission for 50 more years. Bring it on. I'm in for life. Whatever happens, we'll just work it out. You know, like when you love what you do, it's just such a different alignment from your soul.
Speaker 2 (00:48:46) - It's just beautiful.
Speaker 1 (00:48:47) - It's like everything just feels easy and effortless when you're in alignment, I think. Yes.
Speaker 2 (00:48:52) - Let's get those bunny beliefs. Everything comes. Ease and flow.
Speaker 1 (00:48:58) - Oh, I love it all. I love it all. Okay. And love this conversation. And we could probably talk for hours and hours and hours, and I would love to do that. But can we please tell everyone how they can find you and how they can get more of your beautiful energy in their life?
Speaker 2 (00:49:11) - Beautiful. Come and follow our insta.
Speaker 1 (00:49:13) - Yeah, I'll tag it.
Speaker 2 (00:49:14) - Everything tag in the insta Lucy and Milly. And from there you can find everything that we do, whether we're running transformation certifications. If you are someone that wants to uplevel but from there, come and feel the vibe. Come and get to know us. And yeah, we look forward to connecting to you all.
Speaker 1 (00:49:31) - Thank you so much. This has been just such a beautiful conversation.
Speaker 2 (00:49:35) - Thank you. Beautiful. Loved it. Thank you so much.