17. Redefine your identity for riches.
In this episode we talk all things:
What happens when you hesitate on your intuitive guidance.
What to do if your desires and dreams of wealth scare the shit out of you.
The absolutely non-negotiable key exercise you need to do first if you want to gain true clarity and confidence in order to earn and receive money.
My own journey on being caught up and how I was taught my life would look.
The milestones that can throw you off your own desires that seem to be a common trend on social media.
What mindset leads to lack and blocks manifestations from coming to fruition.
How to redefine your identity to align to the bigger business, more money, more impact.
The 3 words that can change your life, spoiler - These words are yours not mine.
There must be no physical difference between yourself now and the highest version of yourself, I’ll tell you why.
A range of different modalities that I use in my work and have been trained in recently to take unlocking my clients potential to the next level and what else is coming in 2022.
My journey of being riddled with fear when I started my business journey.
Your past and present will not dictate your future unless you allow it.
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Welcome to the money mindset hub podcast. I'm your host Carla Townsend, and money mindset and success coach on a mission to normalize feminine wealth through empowering the minds of fierce females in business, you're in the right place if you are a female who wants to become a vibrational match to attract more wealth, freedom and abundance, but you just keep getting stuck, or there's something amiss. There's something blocking you from attracting that desired level of success and reaching your highest potential. So I'll be talking all things money mindset, energetics of money manifestation law of attraction, CEO mindset, and much, much more. Because the world needs more competent women like you with deep pockets. So let's get started.
Hello, everybody, I am back. Happy New Year, I hope you had a wonderful Christmas. I ended up taking about a three week break. And it was magical. It was magical, so much fun catching up with family that I haven't seen him so long. And friends and just being present with my my own little family like my husband and my children. It was just amazing. And I hope it was everything for you. I've definitely struggled getting back into it, though I don't know how you feel. But I always feel like when I completely switch off, I kind of lose that momentum a bit. And I can feel as though even I'm so driven to make 2022 the best year yet, it can still be really hard. So I guess that sort of forced me to reflect on my identity, how I am how I want to show up and how I want to grow and expand this. Yeah. Which To recap, my word of the year is expansion, expansion on every level in my life. So personally, professionally, and business, spiritually, everything I just want to expand, what is yours? What is your Word of the Year, or your overall theme for the year? If you don't know yet, maybe think about your north star and the epitome of success to you and what it is that you're working towards. So what do you need to do? What do you need to think? And who do you need to become to move closer to that success? That successful version of you, your north star that epitome? Now this is like a perfect segue into today's episode, Episode 17. My God.
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This episode is all about redefining your identity for riches. I want you to really look deeply into yourself and re define what it is that is true for you. So I highly recommend having a notebook for this episode because there's a whole heap of questions. And I know your minds going to be working overtime. And lots and lots of stuff's going to come up. So I always say this to my clients. Whenever I ask them a question. I always say whatever the first thing that pops into your mind is that's your intuition speaking to write that down, because if you hesitate, the hesitation basically is a permission to allow all your shitty beliefs to come to the surface and your mind gets to take over, which will then forced you to stay stuck. And nothing magical happens when you stay stuck in your comfort zone. So without further ado, let's get into today's episode and see what redefining redefining your identity for success and for riches looks like for you. If you want to make lots of money, and you have a super successful business, but you have absolutely no idea what you would do when you made that kind of money. Maybe it scares you a bit, then we really need to look at who you are, and go a lot deeper than you've ever gone before. So I've said it before. And I'll say it again here. embodiment is the absolute key to creating and receiving money. It is the very first thing that I do with all my clients. It's the first component that I say we need to focus on this to find true clarity. Because sometimes that can be really hard to you know, I remember when I was going through my, my own journey to find what my purpose was in life. And I kept following all the strategies and all the methods and all these things in the shiny object syndrome would kick in constantly but I just get so clouded and I wouldn't know what what is supposed to be like, I know what I want my life to look like I know how much money I want to make. And I And I've known since on reflection of these last few weeks, I realized like I always wanted to be rich and famous. I like I wanted to be a singer and an actress. That was just my my jam, right more so a singer. But growing up that was just never something that was really encouraged animals like none of you. That's that's just out of your league. What are you doing? go to uni, get a degree, get a job, get married, have kids. That was pretty much like what I was taught that my life had to look like and there's nothing wrong with that and I'm absolutely grateful for all of that. But it has led me to this point. So embodiment is the first thing the exercise that I did that actually made everything shift. And it made me feel like I finally found me. And I also delve deeper into my human design as well, which is basically just an energetic blueprint. And it gives you a permission slip to be who you are and who you are born to be. I'll be bringing more human design into my work this year. So watch this space. It's going to be magical, we're going to infuse that with how to create wealth that is designed to your own energetic blueprint and jinkies which I'm so excited for. I'm so excited for that's just a whole nother in depth way layer. But um, yeah, it'd be amazing. So check out Episode Two on the podcast as well on embodiment. I've linked that in the show notes. If you want to go back and have a listen on how you can activate yourself. So I want you to now think about how much money do you want to make? How much is it? Write it down? Is this figure per year? Or is it per month? Or is it a five year goal or a three year goal? And I don't want you to get so caught up as well, when you do write goals on the date. As much as I love SMART goals. I also question achievable and realistic, because I think that can block your manifestations. I think it can block what you actually truly want. Because you think I don't know if that's really achievable. Oh, that doesn't really sound realistic. It's not always supposed to be realistic. So ask yourself again, how much money do you want to make? What does that look like? get really specific on that amount? Does that amount of money actually turn you on and excite the shit out of you? Or are you being swayed by the constant milestones that are shared on social media, like the 10k 20k 50k months, those sorts of things, maybe it's not any of those milestones. It's definitely a patent. There's lots of people that are sharing all those milestones, which is fantastic, and it's inspiring, and it's motivating. But it doesn't have to be what you're supposed to be aiming for the figure that you desire, not want or need, you don't want something, you don't need something because that comes from a place of lack. But the amount of money that you desire is for a reason. So just to go a bit deeper than that, now you've got your amount of money that it is that you desire. And you're very specific on what that looks like. Like I said, Don't get caught up on the date that you're supposed to do it by, you put it out there. And then you go ahead and do the work, you got to meet the universe halfway right? Don't get so caught up. Because otherwise you can feel like you're failing or feel like you're trying to chase the money. And I never want anyone to feel like they have to just constantly Chase Chase Chase. That's not the point of money mindset and money energetics, that's not the point. So go a bit deeper. Now let's say you made that amount of money that you want. Do you have the tools, the systems, the discipline to manage that amount of money, and use it in a way that will benefit your dreams and desires?
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What comes up for you? Do you don't you? What do you need to do? What things need to shift? Is there a different way you need to position yourself? Is there? Is there systems that you need? Is there, you know, a plan that you need? Is there support that you need? What is it that you need then if you're supposed to get to that? Because when you desire a certain level of money, but it scares the shit out of you. There is always going to be that underlying thing of like, you're not worthy of that. Like you can't have that, you know, if you don't know how to manage 100 like $100, how are you going to manage $100,000? Right, it's those those little beliefs that come up. So I want you to have a look at that be very clear, I always put the amount of money on my vision board. So I am in the process of doing my 2022 vision board. I've got a fair few there. I've done some on Pinterest, I've just got, you know, some printed out in front of me, I'm going to print it all out. I'm a very visual person. So I need to set all that in front of me. But I like to do it slowly. So that's another thing, the amount of money that you want. Put it somewhere you can see it put on your vision board, whether it's on the background of your phone is a really good one because you're looking at all the time, right? Or the background of your laptop, put it there. Yeah, on a physical board where you can see it. So think about that. Let's go into the key point to which I mentioned before, it's about your hesitation. So hesitating, like I said is a permission to allow your shitty beliefs to come to the surface and then take over. So when we hesitate on that intuitive guidance that we get, so we get intuitive guidance, instantly we get an idea, a thought something that we're like, oh, that's exciting. And then we hesitate and then next minute your mind comes in your logical rational mind comes in and it can crush it. Nothing worth striving for comes from your comfort zone. We all know this right? So why is it so easy? Just to allow it to continue, you want more money, more impact, a bigger business, a more fulfilling life. But often those desires can feel really crippling. So I want you to think further about who are you? What have you achieved so far? What are three words that your friends and families would use to describe you. So this is where we're going further into redefining your identity for your riches. Because at the moment, in order for you to reach the level of wealth that you want, and success that you want you right now in this current moment, and that version of yourself that has everything that you want need to become one, they need to blend into each other. So you feel no physical difference, there is no physical difference in the way that you show up now, and the way that she shows up. So think about that. What are the three words right now that you and your friends and your family would use to describe you? What are they? What are the three words? What are the three words that you actually desire to be defined by that next level highest version of you, the woman that has absolutely everything you desire, she has that amount of money that you just wrote down every year or every month? Or whatever it is, she has all the tools and the systems and the discipline and everything in place? That woman? What are three words that you can use to define her? And what's the difference? The three words currently that your family and friends would use to describe you, even yourself, you can do it for yourself, what are three words right now that you would use to define you? And then what are the three words that you use to define your highest, your highest self, your next level version of you?
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Those two needs to blend. So what is it that you need to do in order to become that woman and to in and to change those words so that those words that you define your highest self by? How can you become her now today, in order to use those words to define yourself by them today. So this is not about changing who you are. It's about redefining how you feel about yourself and how you feel about what is possible for you. So there's lots of different methods that you can actually use as well to even go further deeper into this, obviously, meditation. Great one. Great One, I only like to do really short meditations like five minutes because the 15 Minute ones are too long for me. I love doing those. There's those sorts of ones that you can do. There's hypnosis, there's journaling, there's inner child healing, there's so many different techniques that you can do, a lot of which I do use in my work. Actually, this is probably a great way to introduce what I sort of have been doing and light at the end of last year, I decided to do further training in different modalities that I can then use to my in my work for my clients to go so much deeper into reprogram reprogramming, what they believe they're able to achieve and accomplish in this life and the amount of money and wealth are able to create and receive. So I've learned how to do timeline regression, energy clearing zooming out perspective swaps, inner child healing, wound clearing abundance, hypnosis, activations, healing generational trauma, I started delving further into EFT, which is Emotional Freedom Technique is something that I've tried back two years ago, I've been dabbling in and out of I definitely find that it's such a different one, you're either open to it or you're not a lot like all of these, you're either open to it or you're not. But yeah, there's lots of different things like inquiry, emotional intelligence, visualization, meditation, like I mentioned, breathwork hypnosis yet. There's lots of amazing things. So anyway, that was just a little snippet into the things that I have studied further in here. Like I said, I'll bring in human design as well this year. Yes. So to take that then to the next level, doing all those sorts of things, those sorts of modalities, which it's a very individual journey, I would say this is such a very individual journey and being able to redefine, redefine who you are and who you're becoming is such a individual journey. There's like I said, lots of modalities that you can use to do them, but at the same time, you don't need to overdo it. You don't need to overcomplicate it, it really is having a look at those, those words and that woman and like I said, going back and listening to episode two about how to ignite that in a wealthy woman in you. An embodiment. embodiment is just the biggest key with anything because once you don't feel that resistance, and I share a bit of a story here, when I first started my business I was just riddled with fear. Honestly, I was just riddled with fear. I didn't want to put myself out there, I was so scared to even show up on social media, oh my god, the first time I did a story, I was sweating. And now it's like nothing. Because that's when the magic happens. It's when you step out of your comfort zone, that the magic actually happens and things become easier. So I redefined what success looked like for me and how it felt. I did the embodiment work, I figured out who my highest self wasn't, who she is, and what I need to do to get there. And daily, I step into those things. Yes, I definitely did my fair share of healing. I've done my fair share of modalities. I've hired coaches, you name it, I've
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done lots of different things to also help me get there. Because sometimes it's easier said than done. That's the beauty of it, going from that point where I thought, Oh, no one's gonna pay me for my work. You know, who am I to do this, I was just so scared to put myself out there and, and be seen and be heard, because I had such a huge fear of failure. And I truly believed that money was really hard. Still, that's one that pops up for me quite frequently is that money is hard. It is definitely getting easier. And that belief is becoming less and less apparent. Yeah, it can be done. I mean, fast forward to me now, when I've gone from that place of feeling like, who am I to do this and so much fear. And I was just Yeah, I was crippled with it, and stuck for so long, to now signing private clients, and people booking knotted sessions with me frequently, and just seeing the stripe notifications come in, and having this big vision, and having all these incredible ideas for even just this year alone. And not even just that in business, right. But then saying my personal life change the opportunities that have been laid in front of us, the growth and expansion that's going to happen for us as a family this year, even it's just, it blows my mind, it blows my mind. So sitting in that place of gratitude at the moment, and always, always operating out of gratitude is has definitely changed my life as well. But yeah, it's really hot. Anyway, I'm going I'm going on a tangent, I often go on tangents, because I write a few notes of what I kind of want to say. And then randomly I'll start thinking of, oh, hang on, I'll just share this. Anyway, I hope this hasn't like I haven't rambled on too much. And you did get something out of this. I would love to know, please screenshot and share the episode your stories and tag me so I can see. I would love to know what come up for you. What were your three words, please know that based on your financial past, it doesn't have anything to do with your financial future. It really doesn't your past does not define your past. Even your present does not define your future. We've been through our fair share of ups and downs, especially financially. And yet, it keeps getting easier. It keeps getting easier and easier and more abundant. It's because we choose to see it that way and choose that it will and you can too, you can definitely do that too. 2022 is going to be a magical year I could feel it. I could feel it before the year even started. And even for my clients and things I just knew, you know, this year has just such momentum about it. Anyway, I'll catch you next week. I'll leave you with that. Have a beautiful day. Thanks for listening to this week's episode. I hope you enjoyed it and if so, please subscribe to the podcast and join our mailing list at money mindset hub.com. Until next time, remember, everything you desire and deserve is just on the other side of your own resistance. So take that next step.