15. More money will not solve your money problems.
In this episode we talk all things:
Reflection on the week that was.
Gearing up for 2022 to be the most abundant year yet for myself and my clients.
How behavioural and psychological patterns unless uncovered will keep you stuck in the same position with the same outcome.
The reason my title is a Money Mindset AND Success Coach - Not just one or the other due to the correlation between the two that I uncovered in my own life.
How clients expect me to just ask them to journal, but then are shocked when we go so much deeper than their expectation
How your business success or lack of success can correlate to your money mindset and self worth.
Common success blocks my clients have been experiencing in their personal lives and business journey.
Money is a by-product of your behavioural and psychological
3 key elements to focus on every day to move the needle and gain momentum in your business.
The block that can come up when you are in the process of learning.
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Welcome to the money mindset hub podcast. I'm your host Carla Townsend, and money mindset and success coach on a mission to normalize feminine wealth through empowering the minds of fierce females in business, you're in the right place if you are a female who wants to become a vibrational match to attract more wealth, freedom and abundance, but you just keep getting stuck, or there's something amiss. There's something blocking you from attracting that desired level of success and reaching your highest potential. So I'll be talking all things money mindset, energetics of money manifestation law of attraction, CEO mindset, and much, much more. Because the world needs more competent women like you with deep pockets. So let's get started. Hi, everyone. So this week has just been absolutely magical. I've had several ignited sessions with brand new clients private coaching applications coming in. Which I also just wanted to mention that if you do want to work with me privately, it's a minimum of three months, the application link is in the show notes. If you feel called and you've been binge listening to this podcast, which I know there are many of you who have been because we've been having incredible chats in the DMS, then yeah, please just apply, and let's just have a chat and see where you're at. I want everyone to make 2020 to their most abundant year yet. I know even for myself, I can feel it, you know, like I can just feel the abundant energy. And it's definitely gearing up to be the best year in business for myself. And I know so many women that I've been speaking to as well and clients. So this also brings me to a point that I really wanted to talk about in this episode today, which is that more money will not solve your money problems. So when you think about it, money is always relative. And I've said that before money is relative, the more money that you make, the more money that you can afford to spend. So how many times you know, have you got a pay rise, or maybe your expenses have reduced, but then you find at the end of the week, you still end up with the exact same amount of money that you normally would, there are always underlying behavioral and psychological patterns that will remain the same, which then end up resulting in the same outcome each and every time. Regardless of how much money you make the core belief that it's not safe to hold on to money, it's not safe to have money, which is really quite funny. And I've even noticed that this is I shouldn't say funny. But there's so many different blocks. And often your money blocks actually have nothing to do with money. That's another thing that I've noticed has definitely come up, you know, it's coming from myself. That's why I call myself a money mindset and success coach because I believe the two are so heavily correlated with one another. Because I find that the level of success that you believe you're worthy and capable of achieving directly correlates with the amount of money that you believe that you're capable of creating and receiving. So you might be able to see how those two connects. Now, the more money is not going to make your problems go away. And I know that I guess I teach it differently. I'm finding this as well. And I think other women who have worked with me and are realizing that it's different, like I'm not your stock standard money mindset coach, right? It's all about your mindset behind money. But it's also in how that correlates with your business success and how you show up. Whether you're consciously aware or not, there might be things that you're doing that's actually blocking that flow of money blocking that flow of abundance to you. Whether it's you know, you're making it difficult for people to be able to book your services and pay you. Maybe you don't have a website, or maybe your website's really confusing. And sometimes it's really hard to say that when you're in it. I know back in the past, I definitely did that it wasn't really easy.
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You know, I didn't have an email list was so long. And it was just like, I was making it difficult, I guess for people to sign up and to essentially pay me for my services. So there's even things like that and where it shows up. But I noticed this week alone, it popped up a lot. And it was actually one of the things that one of my clients this week said to me, she said, I thought in our ignited session together, it was she said, I thought that you were just going to make me you know, journal on my relationship with money, and my parents relationship with money and, and those sorts of things. I didn't think we're going to get so deep and it was going to be so emotional. That's because it's often not to do with the money. It often doesn't have anything to do with the money, which is really so interesting. It can be just what's happening in your external reality that then is somehow connected to the way that you show up connected to the way that you do your business connected to the way that maybe you procrastinate. Or you don't set up things to make it easy for yourself like your systems aren't seemless there's lots of different ways that money blocks show up. Another way they show up is when you have an income ceiling, you know, for some reason you feel some resistance, it might even be actual physical sickness, you know, or like, a physical feeling in your body that you just cannot go beyond a certain level or just feel strange. There's so many different ways that that it does come up. And at some point in time, whether it was conscious or unconscious, you decided that that was the way it was going to go for you. And here we go. Again, I'm just like going off on a tangent here. But these are just so many different ways I see it show up. It's like, for one, even trading your business, like it's not a real business. And it's just a hobby and a side hustle. But you know, secretly, you want it to be more than a hobby, and a side hustle. That's also where money blocks show up money blocks, slash success blocks, I think they're same same, so many different ways. Even the way that you charge the way that you operate, the way that you struggle to ask for help. There's so many different things. And this is what I mean, it's not always to actually do with the physical amount of money. And this is what I have to work with my clients on is to move them away from that physical amount of money that they're trying to manifest into their life. And look at the behaviors and the psychological patterns. And the reason like the root cause behind why they do what they do. But then the byproduct of that is how much money they're actually able to create and receive and hold with no feeling of safety that comes along with that. So yeah, that's kind of where it is. So there's a few things that I think you can do at the moment. You know, like my client said to me, she thought I was just going to get her to journal in the session. But I, when I turned around and said to her, yeah, but you can do that on your own. She was like, oh, oh, yeah, you know, the whole point of Mike not in sessions is to uncover and release the top block that's holding you back at the moment. Again, links in the show notes, if you want to have a go with that. But it is different, it is definitely different. I do have to warn all my clients that I'll warn, that's probably a bit of a strong word, but I do have to say to them, you know, may, you know, make sure you're in a bit of a quiet place, because sometimes things can come up, you know, it's it's pretty common for it to be quite triggering. And it can be quite emotional when you're going down this deep journey, because you realize that the way you've been acting, and the way you've been showing up in your in your life, not just in your business actually has to do with your self worth, your worthiness of being able to create and receive money and hold on to money and feel that safety within your nervous system. And physically. There's so many different things to it. That's why money mindset is such a big base. It's such a big thing on its own, right. So the first step in being able to uncover any sort of block, and I'm going to get you to do this on your own. Like I said to my client, she already knew how to do all this. So I wasn't going to spend that hour just giving her journal prompts. Because yeah, I get I definitely do things differently. I definitely do things differently. So anyway, here's a couple of things I want you to take away. And I want you to have a think about whether you journal or not, or whether it's just bringing your conscious awareness to these things, whatever works for you. So I do want you to think about in your business, do you procrastinate on the money making tasks? Are there things that you should be doing that will results in the outcome of getting more clients getting more money, but you are not doing them? Why are you not doing them? What are they think about right now write it down? There's probably lots of things like, where are you at right now in business?
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And where do you want to be? And what are the things that you need to do to get there? But where do you notice yourself whether again, behaviorally, or psychologically, you're blocking yourself from actually doing those money making tasks. I had a mentor once. And what she would do, which you can also take away is the days that she would work on a business, she would only put three things that she needed to do every single day. So rather than an overwhelming to do list that then can result in procrastination. Here's what you can do, as well, cuz I thought it was brilliant. So focus on one thing that has to do with marketing your business, whether that be social content, whether it be a blog, whether it be a podcast, whether it be collaboration or something like that something marketing, number two, is doing something that's going to move the needle in your business. So focusing on a task that's going to actually make you money and money making task. So whether that's creating a new offer, whether that's reaching out to warm leads, or anything like that, focus on that, that's number two. So number three, is also to do some form of personal development, some learning something that's going to keep you feeling inspired and motivated to continue to show up. So that's number three. So I'm just going to go over those again. So three things that you can do every day that you work in your business, that's going to help you is one Something to do with marketing your business to something to actually make money in your business and move the needle and three personal development. I'm big on this actually read this quote to one of the ladies that I had a discovery call with this week. It was this it's a quote from Peter Drucker and it says, we now accept the fact that learning is a lifelong process of keeping abreast of change. And the most pressing task is to teach people how to learn. I just wanted that to really sit because I thought, Oh, that's really great. It is so important to continue to be a lifelong learner because we never know everything. And that is also another block. When you feel yourself go, I only know that I know or when you or when you respond with Yeah, I know. You instantly block yourself up from the opportunity to then learn more. Anyway, I'm going to leave you with those simple things. I'll put those in the show notes. And I really hope that helped. And I hope you didn't mind my baby in the background, if you can hear us throughout this. Anyway, I've picked a great time to record this. Anyway, until next time, I'll leave you with that. I hope you enjoyed this episode. Bye. Thanks for listening to this week's episode. I hope you enjoyed it and if so, please subscribe to the podcast and join our mailing list at money mindset hub.com. Until next time, remember, everything you desire and deserve is just on the other side of your own resistance. So take that next step.