Create possibilities not problems for your children.

Mick and I were talking on the weekend about all things life, money, business, parenting and how our perceptions of what is possible for us is completely different from what we grew up believing.

Not that what we grew up believing was bad, but there were lots of limitations and lack of self confidence and belief that stuck around for a long time.

We were watching this show on Netflix and it said, “You will wait your whole lives for your parents to apologise, while they will wait for you to say thank you.”

We discuss parenting all the time, especially when we are challenged by our children, (if you didn’t know we have three children who are 5, 3 and almost 1).

They have been our biggest teachers because of the amount of mirrors they reflect at us to show us the areas we need to evolve, grow and the shadows that exist.

I was brought up with the belief that I had to go to Uni in order to get a decent paying job, and yes depending on what you want to do this is true, but it is also okay if that is not your truth.

It took a lot of challenges, a lot of confusion and a lot of not knowing what the f*uck I was doing, to eventually find my truth.

Life will always have curve balls, but when you know with complete certainty that it is all coming together and to simply focus on finding joy,

Things will always work out, I promise.

Don’t you agree?

Carla xx

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